"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to make my eyes and voice more dominant

evan12

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I look at the mirror and practice to have more dominant gazes because I found girls care a lot about the level of dominant the man is
but I wounder if there is any articles or books that help to make a man look more dominant in his gesture
thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read:

Eye Contact (why it's important) by Surfboard http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000349.html

Successful eye contact by Take No Dirt http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001195.html

Why is eye contact important anyway? Well aside from being an aide to displaying confidence and to show a person that you are interested in them, studies have actually proven that extended eye contact releases chemicals that simulate and initiate the feelings of falling in love. Read for more information, and for ways to use this to your advantage.~Impact
 

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Talk slower. Talking slow lowers the pitch of your voice and raises the perception of your dominance. Talking slower also helps you to be at ease, which of course keeping cool is an important element of dominance.

For body posture, stand tall, chin slightly raised, chest exuded.

Walk slow, move slow, turn your head slow—just imagine everything in slow motion.

As for eye contact, look into her eyes when talking to her, but look around the room when she’s talking to you. The rhythmic timing of looking, looking away, looking again, is an art. The cardinal rule is to never look down—it’s submissive.
 

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You know how your voice rises when you ask a question? Now, whenever you make a statement, slow down and deepen your voice on the last word or phrase.

Something something something dark side. Something something something complete.
 

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You want to improve your health. Start eating organic and get your body fat down to 15% or lower. Avoid feminizing chemicals like BPA (in all canned food and plastic) and unfermented soy (Tofu causes man boobs). That will give you an improved voice (less nasal congestion and leaner jaw line), clearer eyes and most importantly the confidence to stare into hers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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