"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to make my eyes and voice more dominant

evan12

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I look at the mirror and practice to have more dominant gazes because I found girls care a lot about the level of dominant the man is
but I wounder if there is any articles or books that help to make a man look more dominant in his gesture
thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read:

Eye Contact (why it's important) by Surfboard http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000349.html

Successful eye contact by Take No Dirt http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001195.html

Why is eye contact important anyway? Well aside from being an aide to displaying confidence and to show a person that you are interested in them, studies have actually proven that extended eye contact releases chemicals that simulate and initiate the feelings of falling in love. Read for more information, and for ways to use this to your advantage.~Impact
 

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Talk slower. Talking slow lowers the pitch of your voice and raises the perception of your dominance. Talking slower also helps you to be at ease, which of course keeping cool is an important element of dominance.

For body posture, stand tall, chin slightly raised, chest exuded.

Walk slow, move slow, turn your head slow—just imagine everything in slow motion.

As for eye contact, look into her eyes when talking to her, but look around the room when she’s talking to you. The rhythmic timing of looking, looking away, looking again, is an art. The cardinal rule is to never look down—it’s submissive.
 

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You know how your voice rises when you ask a question? Now, whenever you make a statement, slow down and deepen your voice on the last word or phrase.

Something something something dark side. Something something something complete.
 

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You want to improve your health. Start eating organic and get your body fat down to 15% or lower. Avoid feminizing chemicals like BPA (in all canned food and plastic) and unfermented soy (Tofu causes man boobs). That will give you an improved voice (less nasal congestion and leaner jaw line), clearer eyes and most importantly the confidence to stare into hers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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