"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I met this girl online and after chatting for a while we decided to meet up, shes beautiful, intelligent and is really fun. To cut a long story short we ended up kissing then we met up again and done the same( It would have prolly have led to sex if the situation was different) the thing is i really like her as a friend and dont wanna ruin our friendship. Now if i say to her lets just be friends what kind of reaction will this provoke.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the thing is with male and female friends sometimes one person likes the other as more. I have several female friends and it works because we dont like each other as anything more.
In your case how can you be kissing someone and then see her as only a friend? In other words if she told you she only wants to be your friend too and then starts dating another guy would you be jealous or would it be okay with you? If so then just tell her that you just want to be friends. Dont beat around the bush and dont lead her to thinking its going to be more than that.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck. Maybe that's why there's so much divorce, I don't know.

Anyway, be sure that you really want to be friends if that's what you're saying, because in the mind of a woman, that's a completely non-sexual relationship.

To make friends with a woman, do the exact same things you'd do to make friends with a man. If you've never had any sort of friend, then just try being nice to someone, and demonstrate that you're trustworthy over time.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck
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That's a sweeping generalisation indicative of a KBJ. Sometimes that's the case (probably a lot more often that you'd think)..however, I've personally seen several examples where two people in a relationship are also clearly friends.

I think the problem arises when guys try to become friends FIRST and then get sexual later on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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