"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to make her your friend?

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wildchild

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I met this girl online and after chatting for a while we decided to meet up, shes beautiful, intelligent and is really fun. To cut a long story short we ended up kissing then we met up again and done the same( It would have prolly have led to sex if the situation was different) the thing is i really like her as a friend and dont wanna ruin our friendship. Now if i say to her lets just be friends what kind of reaction will this provoke.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RE:

the thing is with male and female friends sometimes one person likes the other as more. I have several female friends and it works because we dont like each other as anything more.
In your case how can you be kissing someone and then see her as only a friend? In other words if she told you she only wants to be your friend too and then starts dating another guy would you be jealous or would it be okay with you? If so then just tell her that you just want to be friends. Dont beat around the bush and dont lead her to thinking its going to be more than that.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck. Maybe that's why there's so much divorce, I don't know.

Anyway, be sure that you really want to be friends if that's what you're saying, because in the mind of a woman, that's a completely non-sexual relationship.

To make friends with a woman, do the exact same things you'd do to make friends with a man. If you've never had any sort of friend, then just try being nice to someone, and demonstrate that you're trustworthy over time.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck
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That's a sweeping generalisation indicative of a KBJ. Sometimes that's the case (probably a lot more often that you'd think)..however, I've personally seen several examples where two people in a relationship are also clearly friends.

I think the problem arises when guys try to become friends FIRST and then get sexual later on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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