"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met this girl online and after chatting for a while we decided to meet up, shes beautiful, intelligent and is really fun. To cut a long story short we ended up kissing then we met up again and done the same( It would have prolly have led to sex if the situation was different) the thing is i really like her as a friend and dont wanna ruin our friendship. Now if i say to her lets just be friends what kind of reaction will this provoke.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the thing is with male and female friends sometimes one person likes the other as more. I have several female friends and it works because we dont like each other as anything more.
In your case how can you be kissing someone and then see her as only a friend? In other words if she told you she only wants to be your friend too and then starts dating another guy would you be jealous or would it be okay with you? If so then just tell her that you just want to be friends. Dont beat around the bush and dont lead her to thinking its going to be more than that.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck. Maybe that's why there's so much divorce, I don't know.

Anyway, be sure that you really want to be friends if that's what you're saying, because in the mind of a woman, that's a completely non-sexual relationship.

To make friends with a woman, do the exact same things you'd do to make friends with a man. If you've never had any sort of friend, then just try being nice to someone, and demonstrate that you're trustworthy over time.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck
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That's a sweeping generalisation indicative of a KBJ. Sometimes that's the case (probably a lot more often that you'd think)..however, I've personally seen several examples where two people in a relationship are also clearly friends.

I think the problem arises when guys try to become friends FIRST and then get sexual later on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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