"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to make her your friend?

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I met this girl online and after chatting for a while we decided to meet up, shes beautiful, intelligent and is really fun. To cut a long story short we ended up kissing then we met up again and done the same( It would have prolly have led to sex if the situation was different) the thing is i really like her as a friend and dont wanna ruin our friendship. Now if i say to her lets just be friends what kind of reaction will this provoke.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the thing is with male and female friends sometimes one person likes the other as more. I have several female friends and it works because we dont like each other as anything more.
In your case how can you be kissing someone and then see her as only a friend? In other words if she told you she only wants to be your friend too and then starts dating another guy would you be jealous or would it be okay with you? If so then just tell her that you just want to be friends. Dont beat around the bush and dont lead her to thinking its going to be more than that.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck. Maybe that's why there's so much divorce, I don't know.

Anyway, be sure that you really want to be friends if that's what you're saying, because in the mind of a woman, that's a completely non-sexual relationship.

To make friends with a woman, do the exact same things you'd do to make friends with a man. If you've never had any sort of friend, then just try being nice to someone, and demonstrate that you're trustworthy over time.
 
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Women are weird in that they dont' actually 'like' the guys that they fvck
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That's a sweeping generalisation indicative of a KBJ. Sometimes that's the case (probably a lot more often that you'd think)..however, I've personally seen several examples where two people in a relationship are also clearly friends.

I think the problem arises when guys try to become friends FIRST and then get sexual later on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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