"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to make her understand

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Its this girl I been sorta talking to for a couple weeks.I do like her alot and she likes me also.She is planning on breaking up with her boyfriend that she has been dating for a couple months to get with me,but the thing is that I dont want to go with her because I dont want to have a relationship like that.I have girls that I mess with and she doesnt know,but i want to keep her without jumping to a ralationship because i hate when they get serious,plus I dont want to hurt her by not being faithful.

What should I do???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell her???

Don't be an ******* to her, if you really like her, then you will tell her.
 
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I have tried to hint it out to her,and I know for a fact she understood what I meant but for some reason she is still trying break up with him.I told her I would be her secret,but she still insists.
 
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Then she sounds like shes crazy maybe??

You told her "I don't want a relationship. And if we do, I will cheat." and shes still breaking up with this guy???

None of this **** happens in Canada lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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