“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to make convo on more intimate topics?

mystik

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when we were entering the relationship this used to not be a problem at all, for even if i say "um, yeah" she would continue to talk on and on. However now that we are in a relationship (3 months) i find that a lot of times i dont know what to talk to her about.
I know every aspect of her life, i know her views her dreams and her wants, etc. Most of the time when i see her we are also with others so the conversation never dies. However when i am in a 1 on 1 situation with her i realize that i really dont konw how to keep a convo alive with her anymore and we end up making out instead..

so here's my question, in the bible the introductory conversations are limited to WHO WHAT WHEN WHERE, what if you know all that? How to approach the next level of conversations?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Talk about yourself more, talk about what happened recently that she doesnt know about.

Also the talk-to-action ratio becomes more average into dating. Focus on talking to other people with her around. Make sure its not only about you adn her. Like take a look at Maddox's webapge http://maddox.xmission.com/ - does he ever run out of this to talk about? Of course not, but thats what keeps him amusing and worth reading over and over again.
 
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