"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to make an opener from scratch?

Miguel

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Alright, I've been wondering about this for a while, how does one go about making an opener? how do you figure out a good spot to start? I've been using a couple that I took from other people like "who lies more, men or women?" or "Would you ever date a guy who still slept with his childhood memento, like a teddy bear?". but the thing is, I'm stumped on making my own. I want to make a good opinion opener thats all me, someone tell me where to start!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Well , im not very good at opinion openers . But i can give you a few tips .

They gotta have intriguing topic .

They have something to do with man/women relationships .

You should think an opener that gives you a lot of options transitioning (from opener passing to another routine )

Your opener should have many options to response .

Should not be direct or something that makes them discomfort .

Thats it . But always remember , use time false constrain and body rocking while performing opener :D . They are very important :D .
 

Mistic

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I sorry but these canned opener false time constraint approaches are silly. If YOU are not intriguing and interesting, it wont matter what opener you use, you will just be a boring guy using a stupid line. If you are interesting, anything you say is a valid opener, and you will not loose ground after blowing your wad on some scripted crap. "Who lies more, flossing, before or after you brush?" Come on guys, these are ridiculous outdated pick-up lines.
 
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