"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to make an opener from scratch?

Miguel

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Alright, I've been wondering about this for a while, how does one go about making an opener? how do you figure out a good spot to start? I've been using a couple that I took from other people like "who lies more, men or women?" or "Would you ever date a guy who still slept with his childhood memento, like a teddy bear?". but the thing is, I'm stumped on making my own. I want to make a good opinion opener thats all me, someone tell me where to start!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well , im not very good at opinion openers . But i can give you a few tips .

They gotta have intriguing topic .

They have something to do with man/women relationships .

You should think an opener that gives you a lot of options transitioning (from opener passing to another routine )

Your opener should have many options to response .

Should not be direct or something that makes them discomfort .

Thats it . But always remember , use time false constrain and body rocking while performing opener :D . They are very important :D .
 

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I sorry but these canned opener false time constraint approaches are silly. If YOU are not intriguing and interesting, it wont matter what opener you use, you will just be a boring guy using a stupid line. If you are interesting, anything you say is a valid opener, and you will not loose ground after blowing your wad on some scripted crap. "Who lies more, flossing, before or after you brush?" Come on guys, these are ridiculous outdated pick-up lines.
 
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