"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hi, ive got a date with a girl in my class i like. im not sure she if thinks of it as a date though as i invited her to a show we will both enjoy. She might think i invited her becuase i know she likes it. im not sure

ive known her for about 1 a half years but havent spoke much and this could be an advantage as she wont really know me and im not in the friendzone.

anyhow, im driving us to the show. when i drop her off home afterwards id like to make a move on her like kiss her or something. How should i do this? im a bit clueless on how to do it? i certinaly dont want to drop her off be like 'ok seeya' as then i would have blown my chance. i have to make some kind of move to try and get with her

thanks for any help given :)

BTW im 18 and shes 17, soon to be 18
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do what feels natural. Forget rules. Have fun, and use some kino. If she is interested, she will flow with it...
 

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I agree... do what feels natural... meaning, if you think about doing it for more than a split second, then don't do it, because it's going to come out unnatural.

Also, if it comes to a point where you get the opportunity to go for a kiss, here's what I found helps out a lot. Make it fun! Give her a kiss on the lips, then grin like a little kid. If she's ticklish, tickle her. Then kiss her again, for a little bit longer. Eventually, you'll be locking lips for a good while.
 

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I agree just go with the flow. I had my first date in forever (was in an LTR before) and when I dropped her off I was thinking if I should go for it or not. Then when she was standing there I just walked up to her and kissed her on the lips without even flinching at which point she repsonded with some heavy making out. Now prior to that she had not intiated much kino but she was receptive of me doing it.

Main thing is when you actually go for the kiss do not hesitate, just go for it like you she already wants to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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