"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hi, ive got a date with a girl in my class i like. im not sure she if thinks of it as a date though as i invited her to a show we will both enjoy. She might think i invited her becuase i know she likes it. im not sure

ive known her for about 1 a half years but havent spoke much and this could be an advantage as she wont really know me and im not in the friendzone.

anyhow, im driving us to the show. when i drop her off home afterwards id like to make a move on her like kiss her or something. How should i do this? im a bit clueless on how to do it? i certinaly dont want to drop her off be like 'ok seeya' as then i would have blown my chance. i have to make some kind of move to try and get with her

thanks for any help given :)

BTW im 18 and shes 17, soon to be 18
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do what feels natural. Forget rules. Have fun, and use some kino. If she is interested, she will flow with it...
 
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I agree... do what feels natural... meaning, if you think about doing it for more than a split second, then don't do it, because it's going to come out unnatural.

Also, if it comes to a point where you get the opportunity to go for a kiss, here's what I found helps out a lot. Make it fun! Give her a kiss on the lips, then grin like a little kid. If she's ticklish, tickle her. Then kiss her again, for a little bit longer. Eventually, you'll be locking lips for a good while.
 
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I agree just go with the flow. I had my first date in forever (was in an LTR before) and when I dropped her off I was thinking if I should go for it or not. Then when she was standing there I just walked up to her and kissed her on the lips without even flinching at which point she repsonded with some heavy making out. Now prior to that she had not intiated much kino but she was receptive of me doing it.

Main thing is when you actually go for the kiss do not hesitate, just go for it like you she already wants to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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