"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to make a conversation not sound boring???

freshprince

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well i would like to have some pointers in ways in which i can spice up a conversation or some topics maybe and also if its a person your interested in and you just collected her number what would be some topics in which you can put out and elaborate on and still not making the conversation be boring so she would think of calling you another time round.
P.S
I read some the dj bible already and i know about the key thing in which you must do when conversating with a girl on date or on phone which is to LISTEN so you can pick up on these things so you don't run out of things to talk about but regardless of this i still need some help which is what this forum is for so thanks in advance.:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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Conversation skills, the most commonly neglected subject when it comes to dating advice. Topics to talk about? There is only ONE topic that you need to know which you can engage in with another woman, and it's so universal it literally works on EVERYONE! Wanna know what this subject is?

Themselves!

Get her talking about herself. Ask questions and then ask more questions. You know what women love in a man more than anything? It's a guy who listens to them (for gold diggers this is different).
 

blueline

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Ask her about herself and just nod going "yeah, uhhuh, oh really?, cool, etc." stare her right in the eye as you converse with her.

if you're just trying to **** her, your conversation with her does not have to be entertaining. the entertainment she gets is the thought of your **** between her legs. of course, this is assuming the girl is attracted to you already, which is really the only type of girl that is DTF to begin with. you cannot build attraction through anything besides "social proof", it is either there or it isn't.
 
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