"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to make a conversation not sound boring???

freshprince

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well i would like to have some pointers in ways in which i can spice up a conversation or some topics maybe and also if its a person your interested in and you just collected her number what would be some topics in which you can put out and elaborate on and still not making the conversation be boring so she would think of calling you another time round.
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I read some the dj bible already and i know about the key thing in which you must do when conversating with a girl on date or on phone which is to LISTEN so you can pick up on these things so you don't run out of things to talk about but regardless of this i still need some help which is what this forum is for so thanks in advance.:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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War Against Betaism

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Conversation skills, the most commonly neglected subject when it comes to dating advice. Topics to talk about? There is only ONE topic that you need to know which you can engage in with another woman, and it's so universal it literally works on EVERYONE! Wanna know what this subject is?

Themselves!

Get her talking about herself. Ask questions and then ask more questions. You know what women love in a man more than anything? It's a guy who listens to them (for gold diggers this is different).
 

blueline

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Ask her about herself and just nod going "yeah, uhhuh, oh really?, cool, etc." stare her right in the eye as you converse with her.

if you're just trying to **** her, your conversation with her does not have to be entertaining. the entertainment she gets is the thought of your **** between her legs. of course, this is assuming the girl is attracted to you already, which is really the only type of girl that is DTF to begin with. you cannot build attraction through anything besides "social proof", it is either there or it isn't.
 
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