Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Its not the speech. Everytime we speak something, we inevitably think what we just spoke, hence why they say, think before you speak. The act of thought is what influences.reality, the water, and rice.. our. thoughts are powerful energy. as has been proven by these experiments, but has been. known by humans for thousands. of years, better in ancient times than. now..amazingswayze said:I don't believe this at all. Rice can't react to human speech. This makes almost no sense. What is the scientific basis? I understand the power of positive thinking but in this context it seems like total B.S.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And how much do you have now?Very interesting thread.
I am setting a goal to have 3 million dollars in assets in 4 and a half years.
This seems to ring true in my life. I used to make 10 to 20,000 RMB/month in China and I got used to that lifestyle, when I returned home my mind was still set at that 'lifestyle' and thus I ended up quiting my crap job to pursue a trade that would allow me that kind of lifestyle in North America. Interesting how that works out. When I was younger I wasn't interested in it but the first thing I did when I got home was look up the highest paying jobs and set out to get the appropriate education for them.Believe it or not multiple studies show that when you believe something strongly enough your mind begins to find ways of making it come true on a subconscious level in ways you aren't even aware of. You'll find yourself in situations "by chance" or "pure luck", but in reality your mind has put you in a place for those situations to occur. Our minds are so powerful yet we don't know how to harness it or take advantage of it.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
never thought of being a business artist-like WarholGuru,
I actually liked that story lol. But let me ask you this question to continue this discussion.
You mentioned that one should: Begin with abstract (i.e., beliefs, motivations, psychology, etc.). Then proceed to concrete (modus operandi, planning, analysis, etc).
It's funny because I believe the opposite is true, I would begin with concrete concepts and from the development of such concrete concepts, I would naturally birth abstract aspects of motivation, belief, "purpose" and passion. What do I mean? Let me explain below.....
#1.) Social Science and Market Research Study
I believe every business venture begins with a full understanding of the Social Science related concepts that are related to such venture. This includes conducting full research and analysis over the Macro and Micro, the Political landscape (taxes, regulations, if there's a free market available, etc.), prior customer behavior, prospective customer behavior through monitoring changes in attitude, monitoring shifts in landscapes, completing primary market research, completing secondary market research, etc, etc. This is solid concrete concept development.
#2.) Innovation
From this study, which is what I refer to as MARKET RESEARCH, it allows you to determine what type of products, services, skills and competencies you need to bring to this market to fulfill the prospective upcoming (or current) demand. HERE, is where the abstract comes in, where your creativity and innovation is laid on the table to create products, services and solutions for said MARKET in a first mover or second mover strategy, to gain such market share and serve such market share better than competing options.
#3.) The Selfish Artist v.s. The Business Artist
It's the difference (in my opinion) between the selfish artist and the business artist. The selfish artist will sit down and create music, film, or other form of entertainment (art) based solely on what THEY "feel" like creating.
Where as the business artist will not sit down to create anything until AFTER they have researched and identified a particular target market that they will decide to cater to, and once that's identified, THEN their "abstract" comes to the table in terms of creating the "art" that their market wants.
The "purpose" of said business artist is then born through their "passion" to SERVE said market. From their "passion" to serve said market, their persistence/tenacity is developed as they can see the BIG PICTURE and don't allow short term setbacks to off-set their ultimate goal/milestones.