"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how to lose facial fat?

Aspiring_DJ

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I am very skinny but have been trying to put on weight lately. i am 5'11 160 lbs. I want to lose some weight in my face so my jaw projects more and such. How do I do this, any tips?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quagmire911

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Sounds like you are skinny fat.

This means you are skinny, yet still carry quite a bit of fat on you. This would explain the facial fat. You need to lose fat overall, whilst gaining muscle. There is no way you can spot reduce fat, it goes from everywhere as you drop your bf%.
 

insidious

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Kerpal said:
Get a very short haircut, it will make your jaw look squarer.
I object! Bad advice!
If you have a chubby-cheeked face,
cutting your hair short will just
accentuate your chipmunk look
further.
5'11" and 160???
I would normally tell you to lose
a lot of your weight but you're already
maxed out in the underweight dept.

Plastic surgery?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shyyhs

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People just have fat faces, it's genetics. Just look at Amanda Bynes, she's skinny as hell and as a fat face. There's nothing you can do about it besides plastic surgery.
 

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Yup, it's genetics. That's why the first place on my body to lose fat is my face, then the stomach, and so on.
 

KontrollerX

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Listen to Quagmire.

He has given you the only real advice in this thread for fixing your problem.

Personal Trainers on other message boards I've read have said the same thing.

You cannot spot reduce fat you can only do cardio and lose fat and your body will get rid of fat where it wants to get rid of fat on you first.

Then as long as you keep up the cardio the place you want the fat to dissapear from it will dissapear from but yeah once again your body has the say where the fat gets removed from first when you start dieting and exercising.
 

spesmilitis

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I'm no expert, but my face does look a lot puffier when there is causes of inflammation in my life.

Try this:
Less stress
full nights sleep
fish oil
vit-c
healthy eating
exercise.
 

Quiksilver

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Gain 15lbs of muscle and lose 10lbs of fat and see if you still have that problem, or care about it.

As for the How... Well there's plenty of information on this board for that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ecilop

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I agree with quicksilver. don't focus on your face because there's no way to spot lose fat.

go for the bigger goal, start a workout regimen. once you gain 15lbs muscle/lose 10lbs of fat i think you'll be flexing in the mirror instead of worrying about your face ;)
 
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