Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to let them down

cNfny

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ok, so you've met a girl, went out, maybe kissed, maybe more, maybe sex. but after you just didnt want her around, the thrill was simply gone when one aspect had been achieved or just knew you didnt want to go any further.

how do you tell her? if at all?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lYlasTer

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Be honest and tell her you don't want to see her anymore. I NEVER tell a girl that I'm bored of her or anything like that, you don't need to **** up her self-esteem. I just tell women that I'm not ready to go any further and I got too much stuff going on in my life, I'm not ready to commit.
 

DonJuan11

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cNfny said:
ok, so you've met a girl, went out, maybe kissed, maybe more, maybe sex. but after you just didnt want her around, the thrill was simply gone when one aspect had been achieved or just knew you didnt want to go any further.

how do you tell her? if at all?


Sounds like you want a hooker instead of a relationship.
 
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