"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cNfny

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ok, so you've met a girl, went out, maybe kissed, maybe more, maybe sex. but after you just didnt want her around, the thrill was simply gone when one aspect had been achieved or just knew you didnt want to go any further.

how do you tell her? if at all?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lYlasTer

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Be honest and tell her you don't want to see her anymore. I NEVER tell a girl that I'm bored of her or anything like that, you don't need to **** up her self-esteem. I just tell women that I'm not ready to go any further and I got too much stuff going on in my life, I'm not ready to commit.
 

DonJuan11

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cNfny said:
ok, so you've met a girl, went out, maybe kissed, maybe more, maybe sex. but after you just didnt want her around, the thrill was simply gone when one aspect had been achieved or just knew you didnt want to go any further.

how do you tell her? if at all?


Sounds like you want a hooker instead of a relationship.
 
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