"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to let a girl down easily?

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Peacebewithyou

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How do I let a girl down easily. There is this girl I have known for three years. I liked her on an off for the three years. She friended me explicitly this past September. With my natural temperment, I simply went my way and became very disinterested in her. Come late October, she was highly interested in me and until now she has some interest. We have hung out quite a bit since late October. Right now, we are on break from college. However, she takes too much of my mental energy, which I want back haha. How do I distance myself from her for now? How do I let her down easily?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm no expert, by any means but: do the obvious. You are in control of your life are you not? If you want distance: take it. If she is smart, she will get the picture. If not...well...you will have to escalate the intention to verbalization of intent. That is, she will confront you at some point and you will have to state what you were trying to avoid. But that will be up to her, whether it is necessary to go that far.
 
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Tell her in person you want distance. Don't be a coward. If you have been any level of intimate with her and she thinks it is some sort of relationship just tell her to her face that she isn't what you are looking for. Then she will have closure and you don't have to worry about her constantly harassing you.
 
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