"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How To Lay Girls Guide (Layguide): Read it or not?

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Hi DJs,

I want to start to improve my sex/love life. Do you recommend the layguide for the beginning? I'm really interested in it.
I read some excerpts and it sums up the best techniques in my mind (negs, nlp, ss, gunwitch, approaches,...).

I think all the true DJs have read it?!

Please post also the book/ebook with that you had the biggest progress?

Please don't post many books at once, like "I've read DYD, Mystery, Juggler, I know much, but I haven't taken action and that resulted in NOTHING". :woo:
Just the one book that you find best.

My TOP GUN is: Layguide :up:
What's yours?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dude. I started out with The Layguide. It is by far the best thing I could have possibly read to start with.

It has ALOT more practical advice than The Game or similar books. Its so cheap to buy too!

Enjoy!

Fash
 

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Does anyone have an online version of this book? I'd like to take a read..
 

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@ NFC: Send me a PM!

@ Fash: Hey Fash, you're my model. I want to read it because I've read all your Field Reports and successes. Have you been successful with ladies before?
I'm really fascinated by your game and I want to be just like you.
Can you be my mentor? :D
What else do you recommend? I saw that you also speak much about c&f and IOIs?

Is Fash here the only Layguide reader gentlemen?
 

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Mode said:
Hi DJs,

I want to start to improve my sex/love life. Do you recommend the layguide for the beginning? I'm really interested in it.
I read some excerpts and it sums up the best techniques in my mind (negs, nlp, ss, gunwitch, approaches,...).

I think all the true DJs have read it?!

Please post also the book/ebook with that you had the biggest progress?

Please don't post many books at once, like "I've read DYD, Mystery, Juggler, I know much, but I haven't taken action and that resulted in NOTHING". :woo:
Just the one book that you find best.

My TOP GUN is: Layguide :up:
What's yours?
negs? NLP? SS? are you fvcking kidding me?

Do you really truly beleive that sh1t works? what the fvck is wrong with you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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negs? NLP? SS? are you fvcking kidding me?

Do you really truly beleive that sh1t works? what the fvck is wrong with you?
God, if it doesn't work, what does work for you??

Yes, I really truly believe that the sh1t "negs" works, definitely for HB8 or higher.
And I think that NLP has at least a positive influence on women.
BTW, have you ever tried NLP (SS) or NEGS?
 

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Shezz, thanks for the website. Just checked it out and saw one of your posts there.
Never heard of Mutual Value Escalation.

So I should start with direct game and don't read the layguide.
Hmm, I don't know, that book looks so interesting and I've heard many good things about it.

Ok, I'll first read the game, that's a good idea. You said, learn direct game and stick to online material. Where can I find it? What books do you recommend, DYD?
 

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I wont recommend DYD. There's more material that straightens your learning curve eg Juggler and MM. DYD has very good concepts, but its neither here nor there. After reading the book itself, you'll have to field test a lot more as compared to Juggler and/or MM. On top of that, DD's ideas are very surface and you'll have to re read the examples time and time again to actually understand the gist of it.
 
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