"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How To Lay Girls Guide (Layguide): Read it or not?

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Hi DJs,

I want to start to improve my sex/love life. Do you recommend the layguide for the beginning? I'm really interested in it.
I read some excerpts and it sums up the best techniques in my mind (negs, nlp, ss, gunwitch, approaches,...).

I think all the true DJs have read it?!

Please post also the book/ebook with that you had the biggest progress?

Please don't post many books at once, like "I've read DYD, Mystery, Juggler, I know much, but I haven't taken action and that resulted in NOTHING". :woo:
Just the one book that you find best.

My TOP GUN is: Layguide :up:
What's yours?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dude. I started out with The Layguide. It is by far the best thing I could have possibly read to start with.

It has ALOT more practical advice than The Game or similar books. Its so cheap to buy too!

Enjoy!

Fash
 
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Does anyone have an online version of this book? I'd like to take a read..
 
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@ NFC: Send me a PM!

@ Fash: Hey Fash, you're my model. I want to read it because I've read all your Field Reports and successes. Have you been successful with ladies before?
I'm really fascinated by your game and I want to be just like you.
Can you be my mentor? :D
What else do you recommend? I saw that you also speak much about c&f and IOIs?

Is Fash here the only Layguide reader gentlemen?
 
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Mode said:
Hi DJs,

I want to start to improve my sex/love life. Do you recommend the layguide for the beginning? I'm really interested in it.
I read some excerpts and it sums up the best techniques in my mind (negs, nlp, ss, gunwitch, approaches,...).

I think all the true DJs have read it?!

Please post also the book/ebook with that you had the biggest progress?

Please don't post many books at once, like "I've read DYD, Mystery, Juggler, I know much, but I haven't taken action and that resulted in NOTHING". :woo:
Just the one book that you find best.

My TOP GUN is: Layguide :up:
What's yours?
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negs? NLP? SS? are you fvcking kidding me?

Do you really truly beleive that sh1t works? what the fvck is wrong with you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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negs? NLP? SS? are you fvcking kidding me?

Do you really truly beleive that sh1t works? what the fvck is wrong with you?
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God, if it doesn't work, what does work for you??

Yes, I really truly believe that the sh1t "negs" works, definitely for HB8 or higher.
And I think that NLP has at least a positive influence on women.
BTW, have you ever tried NLP (SS) or NEGS?
 
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Shezz, thanks for the website. Just checked it out and saw one of your posts there.
Never heard of Mutual Value Escalation.

So I should start with direct game and don't read the layguide.
Hmm, I don't know, that book looks so interesting and I've heard many good things about it.

Ok, I'll first read the game, that's a good idea. You said, learn direct game and stick to online material. Where can I find it? What books do you recommend, DYD?
 
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I wont recommend DYD. There's more material that straightens your learning curve eg Juggler and MM. DYD has very good concepts, but its neither here nor there. After reading the book itself, you'll have to field test a lot more as compared to Juggler and/or MM. On top of that, DD's ideas are very surface and you'll have to re read the examples time and time again to actually understand the gist of it.
 
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