"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to last longer?

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Guys how can i last longer ? I also have some problems with sleeping - i cannot sleep without having an errection or sexual thoughts....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A good problem to have. That means your testosterone is high. Have your sexual thoughts but learn to let them pass.

As for lasting longer some tips:

-Masturbate before you know your going to have sex.

-Masturbate to the point of no return and stop. Repeat, build resistance.

-When have sex and feel close to finishing, stop and switch positions, go down on her or use your fingers for a few minutes

-Dedicate a lot of time to foreplay, many men rush past this. If you can get her where she needs to be by foreplay. Just a bit of intercourse will send her over.

-Breathe. Think. Once you get the hang of it you won't really come unless you want to. Alot of men think it's inevitable but if you actively control yourself, you'll be fine.
 

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Thx mate for the reply!

Good to know !
 

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Do reverse kegels...
Next time you fap, see where the tension is in your body when you are jerking it. For me it is in my lower abdomen, ass and ****, and breathing. So I make myself take slow breaths from my belly to reduce tension there and (this sounds dumb) try to create the sensation like I am trying to fart and urinate. Don't worry, you won't urinate.

If you have no problems maintaining an erection then try the ultra slow start method, one stroke every 3 seconds then slowly speed up. The other one is the 9 and six method. For every 9 slow strokes have six hard fast strokes then back to slow.

If none of this works get a penis ring. It will let you **** for longer after you pop.
 

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Bruhhh the kegels i used to be king: 2 years a go i had a blonde hb8, she was very devoted and submissived - i could do everything with her. My errection lasted like for 2h or so; but right now am single and havent trained my pc muscle for a long period of time... i cant have orgasm without ejaculation :( i dont know man... it ****es me up...now i got a hb7 tomorrow.. ..so fackin frustrating..

Can u tell me more about ur kegels? Are u able to have dry orgasms? So u last as long as u want?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A good problem to have. That means your testosterone is high. Have your sexual thoughts but learn to let them pass.

As for lasting longer some tips:

-Masturbate before you know your going to have sex.

-Masturbate to the point of no return and stop. Repeat, build resistance.

-When have sex and feel close to finishing, stop and switch positions, go down on her or use your fingers for a few minutes

-Dedicate a lot of time to foreplay, many men rush past this. If you can get her where she needs to be by foreplay. Just a bit of intercourse will send her over.

-Breathe. Think. Once you get the hang of it you won't really come unless you want to. Alot of men think it's inevitable but if you actively control yourself, you'll be fine.
All good stuff...
-girls get off by changing position and pace if you want her to really explode, just not too frequently... this helps immensely with a guy!
-Sometimes I just stop, lay next to her, and run my fingertips all over her body and talk softly... had my ex hit the O a couples times while doing this... used to drive her crazy...
-Kegels are money. get to near end, and hold back for 30 seconds... repeat 3-4 times...
-If she is getting close, slow down or stop.. although make sure you time it right... I pulled out once and she bust seconds afterward... it was awkward as h3ll as she looked at me like... wtf?

Most of quick ejaculation is all in your mind! It is all in your mind!!!!
 

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Practice edging...The male reproductive organs are controlled by muscles. Regular exercise and diet, will give you control over your orgasm. Drinking sufficient amounts of water will increase semen volume. It feels better to move more semen on ejaculation.
 

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A good problem to have. That means your testosterone is high. Have your sexual thoughts but learn to let them pass.

As for lasting longer some tips:

-Masturbate before you know your going to have sex.

-Masturbate to the point of no return and stop. Repeat, build resistance.

-When have sex and feel close to finishing, stop and switch positions, go down on her or use your fingers for a few minutes

-Dedicate a lot of time to foreplay, many men rush past this. If you can get her where she needs to be by foreplay. Just a bit of intercourse will send her over.

-Breathe. Think. Once you get the hang of it you won't really come unless you want to. Alot of men think it's inevitable but if you actively control yourself, you'll be fine.
Solid tips here. The only thing I would add is EXERCISE. If you aren't doing it already, start working out. This will increase endurance and also help you last longer.
 

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These are all solid tips.

If all else fails
, and it's still an issue a very tiny dose of prozac about 30-45 mins before you engage will do the trick. See the urologist, explain and they can help.
 

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Kegels and practice. That, and frequent c*mming. I mean, if you haven't busted a nut in 2 weeks, if you're in some p*ssy.....you're going to c*m early. Just facts, unless maybe you're drunk or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Get old. Works for me.
Ha, funny, it doesn't for me. If left to my natural inclinations, I'd bust in less than 2 minutes.
 

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take joy in punishing that ***** and making her scream...don't let her off the hook so easy...make her take it until she can't take anymore and has to tap out...mindset...you are the beast...you are going to fvck her through the bed.
 
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