How to keep women from getting too attached??

[SoCalMike]

I have a major problem with women getting too attached to me.

Occasionally I will meet a girl who I'd like to just bone, and not much more. But if I say that, they usually get upset and it hurts my chances.

On the other hand, if I don't say ANYTHING, and we bone, next thing I know she wants a ring.

Part of the reason is I have a good job, the other part is I come off as a "nice guy", the kind of guy a girl would like to settle down with. Once they learn I'm good in bed, it seals the deal and they want me for LTR/marriage.

It bugs me that there are other guys I know who are basically just scumbags, but they get laid without attachments CONSTANTLY and the women seem to just accept that these guys are dildos and nothing more. They don't really get angry or upset like they do with me if I just want sex.

How should I change my behavior to prevent women from ALWAYS looking at me as marriage/LTR material?

Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

Don't date her more than once per week.

Don't bring up the subject of relationship unless she does.

Spin a couple of plates.

This should solve the problem. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[Warrior74]

I agree. Spend less time with them. Don't hang out for hanging outs sake.

 

[DJDamage]

How should I change my behavior to prevent women from ALWAYS looking at me as marriage/LTR material?

You can't.

You created this high interest in women, that is why they get attached.

Just be true to yourself and if those women can't understand why you don't want to be exclusive then NEXT them.

 

[SoCalMike]

Good advice, esp the not spending too much time part.

Thanks guys.