You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
We often do videochat with stripping and what not. Sexting is kinda lame when you can actually videochat.
She's not on vacation she's with her family as she is from Colombia.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I dont fear death, so if you think I fear losing a girlfriend, you mistaken. I'm not experienced with girlfriends leaving the country for a bit, so that's why I asked for advice. And yes, I do value our relationship. I'm man enough to admit that opposed to dudes on the forum shouting they bang chicks when in reality they don't bang ****. Ignoring someone on purpose for no reason is some weak ass phony **** I won't do. I only ignore when I'm nexting or when I'm actually busy. I've been out every night ever since she left so obviously I'm still having a good time as my happiness is not dependant on anyone. We about to get hit with the corona lockdown **** though. Bars etc are already closed until 3 april out here.
What are you even talking about?More ********!
I’m VERY picky!
TRANSLATED: I’m a religious virgin girl, still under the umbrella of her parents, and demand perfection.
Can we say ‘unrealistic expectations’?
More Womanese!
Some more things women say, translated and annotated. And how you can speak it back to them. "I like to meet new people and explore the adventures of life." equals "I'm a a player".t.co
Here ya go. Enjoy
I've read the book of Pook. She never said I'm picky or anything that's in the article you posted so it seemed kindof irrelevant. Anyway, I'ma just play it cool, stay myself, talk sex and chase my goals (as much as possible considering we're likely getting a corona lockdown).