"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to keep things interesting?

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My girlfriend's in Colombia for a month. She initiates texting every day but I don't want our relationship to go stale with texting. Sometimes we video call. She's used to being excited when she's with me because we always do crazy **** together. I don't want it to turn boring. How do I keep things interesting and is it okay to engage in conversation over text/video call?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there is a thing called "sexting" and umm... videochat.
tell her to strip for you, etc
 

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there is a thing called "sexting" and umm... videochat.
tell her to strip for you, etc
We often do videochat with stripping and what not. Sexting is kinda lame when you can actually videochat.
 

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this is where she needs to be attracted to... YOU, your mind and your frame.
Dont gush about your day, let her continue to initiate, etc

good luck
 

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Ive seen at least a dozen plus vacation disaster stories. Why?
Because guys turn into women when there girls go on vacation because the vacation stimulates a womans vagina.
Deal with it and become twice as scarce as her.
Why not take the opportunity to go solo and flirt and not focus on "losing her"
From distance.
She should be wondering if you miss her.
She's not on vacation she's with her family as she is from Colombia.
She knows I talk to other girls and is jealous because of it. I always go with the 2/3rd rule as in she initiates twice, I initiate once (even though sometimes I'll let her initiate like 5 times in a row because I know she will). I ain't really looking to go solo and bang other chicks right now though as I'm taking the time to work on more important life stuff like making dat big money, setting up a business, gym ****, etc. I'm not too bothered but I was just wondering how you pimps handled a girl being away from you for sometime.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its still a vacation back home bro. Her visiting her mom means nothing in your feal good she's with mommy she won't fck around while mommy's not looking "brain"
My wife is from North Vietnam from a conservative area and i cant tell you the pillows i shoved in her mouth to keep mom from hearing us fcking in the next room.

The whole tone and fear is very apparent in your original post. Why not grow some balls and ignore her for DAYS while she is gone? By ignore i mean be very distant because your naturally having a good time?? Is that what you are doing??
I dont fear death, so if you think I fear losing a girlfriend, you mistaken. I'm not experienced with girlfriends leaving the country for a bit, so that's why I asked for advice. And yes, I do value our relationship. I'm man enough to admit that opposed to dudes on the forum shouting they bang chicks when in reality they don't bang ****. Ignoring someone on purpose for no reason is some weak ass phony **** I won't do. I only ignore when I'm nexting or when I'm actually busy. I've been out every night ever since she left so obviously I'm still having a good time as my happiness is not dependant on anyone. We about to get hit with the corona lockdown **** though. Bars etc are already closed until 3 april out here.
 

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More ********!

I’m VERY picky!

TRANSLATED: I’m a religious virgin girl, still under the umbrella of her parents, and demand perfection.

Can we say ‘unrealistic expectations’?


Here ya go. Enjoy
What are you even talking about?
 

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If she's into you, she'll make sure she chats you up. The only thing about texting that will kill it and make it boring is if you worry about stupid numbers and get insecure about what she's going to think about what you say, so you don't say it.

Talk to her about sex and all the positions you're going to bang her in when she gets back, if you feel like you can be yourself around her in person and get along then nothing should change. If you don't have that with her now then maybe she's not gf material.
 

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Its a clip from a book from an old poster that posted here. Check it out. Its about women. It may help you so you don't wonder how to keep interest while your woman is away.
I've read the book of Pook. She never said I'm picky or anything that's in the article you posted so it seemed kindof irrelevant. Anyway, I'ma just play it cool, stay myself, talk sex and chase my goals (as much as possible considering we're likely getting a corona lockdown).
 
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