"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to keep going?

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So over the summer I ****ed up on a girl that I found extremely attractive, she also doesnt have a ****ing dweeb personality (we went to highschool together). She was drunk and we were in a room. Alone. Together. I sat in my chair and did nothing as I laughed at her "pretending" to look for alcohol someone hid in the room (an excuse to get her ass close to my face). Anyways I would go on to party with her 3 more times that summer and fail to hook up with her (we were both drunk) but when we were sober she always got really excited around me and would hold eye contact forever, look at me after everything she said you know, the usual.

Now that school started i go to a college 1 hour away from her. I decided to go absolute 0 contact on her and just completely next her as a girl until yesterday I recieve a text dialogue that plays out like this:

"Hi Will"
Me: "Hey whats hangin?"
"Oh just missing you (kiss face emoji)"
Me: "I miss u 2 naamsayin girl?"
"How are classes going?"
Me: "They're great just a ****ty workload"
"Ya but it's fun to learn here. Ja feel?"
Me: "Ja carly I feel. What's your major?"
"Neuroscience but i'm changing it, how about you?"
Me: "Psychology"
"Damn boo"
"Boi"
"Lol"
Me: "Lol Carl u a nutttt"
"Thank you"
-5 hours and 20 shots later-
Me: "Heyy me and some guys from ____ are coming to ___
do you wanna meet up? I might have to crash at your dorm too haha"
"Uh Duh?"

What now
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bokanovsky

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You: "Y dont u com ova here n sit on my c0ck naamsayin grl ja feel?"
 

SgtSplacker

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Get her alone...

Wait for a moment of silence...

Go for the kiss.
 

Harry Wilmington

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Uh, duh!! She reached out to you and automatically accepted your invitation to come over to her dorm last minute. If you haven't banged her already I have no idea what you're waiting for...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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