"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to keep going?

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So over the summer I ****ed up on a girl that I found extremely attractive, she also doesnt have a ****ing dweeb personality (we went to highschool together). She was drunk and we were in a room. Alone. Together. I sat in my chair and did nothing as I laughed at her "pretending" to look for alcohol someone hid in the room (an excuse to get her ass close to my face). Anyways I would go on to party with her 3 more times that summer and fail to hook up with her (we were both drunk) but when we were sober she always got really excited around me and would hold eye contact forever, look at me after everything she said you know, the usual.

Now that school started i go to a college 1 hour away from her. I decided to go absolute 0 contact on her and just completely next her as a girl until yesterday I recieve a text dialogue that plays out like this:

"Hi Will"
Me: "Hey whats hangin?"
"Oh just missing you (kiss face emoji)"
Me: "I miss u 2 naamsayin girl?"
"How are classes going?"
Me: "They're great just a ****ty workload"
"Ya but it's fun to learn here. Ja feel?"
Me: "Ja carly I feel. What's your major?"
"Neuroscience but i'm changing it, how about you?"
Me: "Psychology"
"Damn boo"
"Boi"
"Lol"
Me: "Lol Carl u a nutttt"
"Thank you"
-5 hours and 20 shots later-
Me: "Heyy me and some guys from ____ are coming to ___
do you wanna meet up? I might have to crash at your dorm too haha"
"Uh Duh?"

What now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bokanovsky

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You: "Y dont u com ova here n sit on my c0ck naamsayin grl ja feel?"
 

SgtSplacker

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Get her alone...

Wait for a moment of silence...

Go for the kiss.
 

Harry Wilmington

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Uh, duh!! She reached out to you and automatically accepted your invitation to come over to her dorm last minute. If you haven't banged her already I have no idea what you're waiting for...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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