"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to keep girl interested?

neonlimited

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So this girl was pretty attached to me for about 2 weeks, we hung out and got as far as me fingering her.. the past 2 days she has seemed less interested.. before she used to always call and txt me msgs saying she loves me blah blah

im just wondering how to keep her interested and obsessed with me? thx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phoenix-09

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Keep it interesting and fresh. My ex described our relationship turning sour like listening to the same song over and over. You may like the song, but don't kill it.

Change should make things a bit interesting.

~Phoenix
 

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dont see her as much and make it special and fun whenever you do.
 
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