"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to keep girl interested?

neonlimited

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So this girl was pretty attached to me for about 2 weeks, we hung out and got as far as me fingering her.. the past 2 days she has seemed less interested.. before she used to always call and txt me msgs saying she loves me blah blah

im just wondering how to keep her interested and obsessed with me? thx
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Phoenix-09

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Keep it interesting and fresh. My ex described our relationship turning sour like listening to the same song over and over. You may like the song, but don't kill it.

Change should make things a bit interesting.

~Phoenix
 

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dont see her as much and make it special and fun whenever you do.
 
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