I am currently involved in a relationship, fairly new ( 2 weeks). the problem is this girl is very attractive and was voted prom queen and homecoming queen no joke. but she always has guys after her and she asked to go exclusive with me. i want to avoid being an AFC though because i tend to be the sensitive romantic type of guy. how can i show affection yet keep a challenge in a relationship? i like her a lot and want to hold onto her. so tips would be welcome.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
We have a high school forum for a reason.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
just keep going out with her, and in the mean time read the Book of Pook. Worst Case scenario: you get all chumpish, she breaks up with you, and you're heartbroken for a few weeks.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's two weeks in TAT (Teenage Angst Time), they're damn near married with children!PRMoon said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
When is the baby due?jlr12584 said:
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
if you want the realtionship to last you need to grow a pair...
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
Just do what your doing, just be alittle edgy
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
shortstop22
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As everyone said above....and for god's sake man read the bible.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Download it to your hard drive and study it over the next couple of months. It will enlighten your soul. It's not theory, it's REALITY. And besides, your question is too general for any more specific advice than we've already given you.