I am currently involved in a relationship, fairly new ( 2 weeks). the problem is this girl is very attractive and was voted prom queen and homecoming queen no joke. but she always has guys after her and she asked to go exclusive with me. i want to avoid being an AFC though because i tend to be the sensitive romantic type of guy. how can i show affection yet keep a challenge in a relationship? i like her a lot and want to hold onto her. so tips would be welcome.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
We have a high school forum for a reason.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
just keep going out with her, and in the mean time read the Book of Pook. Worst Case scenario: you get all chumpish, she breaks up with you, and you're heartbroken for a few weeks.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's two weeks in TAT (Teenage Angst Time), they're damn near married with children!PRMoon said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
When is the baby due?jlr12584 said:
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
if you want the realtionship to last you need to grow a pair...
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
Just do what your doing, just be alittle edgy
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
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As everyone said above....and for god's sake man read the bible.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Download it to your hard drive and study it over the next couple of months. It will enlighten your soul. It's not theory, it's REALITY. And besides, your question is too general for any more specific advice than we've already given you.