I am currently involved in a relationship, fairly new ( 2 weeks). the problem is this girl is very attractive and was voted prom queen and homecoming queen no joke. but she always has guys after her and she asked to go exclusive with me. i want to avoid being an AFC though because i tend to be the sensitive romantic type of guy. how can i show affection yet keep a challenge in a relationship? i like her a lot and want to hold onto her. so tips would be welcome.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
We have a high school forum for a reason.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
Also two weeks is not a relationship.
just keep going out with her, and in the mean time read the Book of Pook. Worst Case scenario: you get all chumpish, she breaks up with you, and you're heartbroken for a few weeks.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
and try not to do anything with her more than twice a week MAX, never two days in a row. Shouldn't be too hard now that school's out.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's two weeks in TAT (Teenage Angst Time), they're damn near married with children!PRMoon said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
When is the baby due?jlr12584 said:
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
if you want the realtionship to last you need to grow a pair...
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
1) YOU DON'T NEED HER
2) she probably ain't that hott...u just got oneitis
3) stop giving her the attention she wants, make her chase you
Just do what your doing, just be alittle edgy
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
1. Dont call her or text her all the time
2. Go out with just your guys friends from time to time
3. Avoid seeing her more than 3 times per week,
4. Dont be Jealous and act like you were the prom king, etc, your the catch she is lucky to have you,
shortstop22
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As everyone said above....and for god's sake man read the bible.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
Specifically the book of Pook and what it means to be a man.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Download it to your hard drive and study it over the next couple of months. It will enlighten your soul. It's not theory, it's REALITY. And besides, your question is too general for any more specific advice than we've already given you.