"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How To Keep A Girl??? Need Advice Asap

rob23

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Okay before I had done a post about this grl that I really liked we’ve been friends for the past 2 years and nothing happened and than of course so suave came into my life and now you can say were friends with benefits, as she likes to say friends with “feelings”. Well I won’t deny I actually do also like this girl, but at the time were friends. We haven’t had sex yET, but I think im playing pretty week game on her, it was very strong before, but now I think I may be acting a bit too much like “myself” I have her on a bit of a pedestal I try not to but it just happens at times. So before I read a post on how to turn a friend into a lover, now I need to know how to keep a lover keeping loving? I need advice asap as I am going to New jersey in a week and I think I need to make some major moves before her ex comes bak in her life…..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KnockoutJM

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If you want to stay friends with her, and have her in your life dont do anything, and accept the fact that she is your friend.

If you dont really care, and want to have sex, just go for it, shouldn't be too hard, she probably gives you **** tests by trying to escalate, to see if you are a good friend who will tell her no, or if you just want sex.

I would reccommend not trying to advance it, i know ive ****ed up bad by doing it, and as soon as it ends, it will never be the same as you were when you were even friends, it totally sucks..
 

rob23

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you know what, honestly ive come to the conclusion that i can't be friends with her now anywayz and ++ i can't make friends with a good looking girl lol im a guy remember? shes a good girl and i want something more than just friends. before i followed http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm

which honestly was the best thing ever because everything they said on that it happened right on cue, so i need something similar something to direct me and improve my game, because after all this is just a game, and that is the way it works.
 

Obsidian

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Read the Book of Pook, and then be a man. Don't just try to fake it with techniques, or your "success" will only be temporary at best. Don't take crap from anyone, especially women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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