"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How To Keep A Girl??? Need Advice Asap

rob23

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Okay before I had done a post about this grl that I really liked we’ve been friends for the past 2 years and nothing happened and than of course so suave came into my life and now you can say were friends with benefits, as she likes to say friends with “feelings”. Well I won’t deny I actually do also like this girl, but at the time were friends. We haven’t had sex yET, but I think im playing pretty week game on her, it was very strong before, but now I think I may be acting a bit too much like “myself” I have her on a bit of a pedestal I try not to but it just happens at times. So before I read a post on how to turn a friend into a lover, now I need to know how to keep a lover keeping loving? I need advice asap as I am going to New jersey in a week and I think I need to make some major moves before her ex comes bak in her life…..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KnockoutJM

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If you want to stay friends with her, and have her in your life dont do anything, and accept the fact that she is your friend.

If you dont really care, and want to have sex, just go for it, shouldn't be too hard, she probably gives you **** tests by trying to escalate, to see if you are a good friend who will tell her no, or if you just want sex.

I would reccommend not trying to advance it, i know ive ****ed up bad by doing it, and as soon as it ends, it will never be the same as you were when you were even friends, it totally sucks..
 

rob23

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you know what, honestly ive come to the conclusion that i can't be friends with her now anywayz and ++ i can't make friends with a good looking girl lol im a guy remember? shes a good girl and i want something more than just friends. before i followed http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm

which honestly was the best thing ever because everything they said on that it happened right on cue, so i need something similar something to direct me and improve my game, because after all this is just a game, and that is the way it works.
 

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Read the Book of Pook, and then be a man. Don't just try to fake it with techniques, or your "success" will only be temporary at best. Don't take crap from anyone, especially women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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