MrP
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Specifically with groups of girls and no wing. How can I get into conversation with them easily? (It's so much easier when they're alone, but the hot ones are ALWAYS in a group).
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How to interrupt?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr.Freestyler19
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use ur imagination!
examples :
do u have a pencil/pen etc........do u have 5 cents if near a vending machine.....i like ur t-shirt/ blouse etc..
examples :
do u have a pencil/pen etc........do u have 5 cents if near a vending machine.....i like ur t-shirt/ blouse etc..
eaglez1177
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Well theres two ways you can go on this one:
Option A: Address ONE of the girls in the group, and after saying a few words to her, then address the rest of the group, maybe asking for the group's opinion, advice, etc. If you talk to only one of the girls, but totally ignore the rest, the rest of the girls will get b*tchy and may attempt to c*ckblock because they want their small share of attention (I know its ridiculous isnt it?). Ex: "Hey I need your opinion on my shirt, does it bring out my chest more or my arms more?"(Lets say she says "arms")..."Yeah thats what I figured, what do you girls all think? Chest or arms?" While all this is going on, be observant to see which of the girls is most interested, and then briefly single her out in a very brief convo, and then close it all out. Make sure you address the entire group when you close (obviously there is room for a number close).
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Option B: Address the group as a whole. This one can work well because it becomes easier to determine which of the girls is interested in you. The one that smiles at you and says something is the one you then focus on. If you're addressing the group, go with a question, comment, opinion etc that addresses the group as a whole. Ex: Hey do any of you have an extra pencil? (Now focus on the girl that responds to you, because she's the one that's interested)....Oh thank you, what's your name by the way?....Then just continue on with the conversation.
Let me add though, try to make it brief and that you will talk to her later, because her friends will get all pissed off and b*tchy with you, and will try to c*ckblock if you get in a long convo right in front of them or ask questions,comments, etc that require a long response. (They will view it as being rude). If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
Option A: Address ONE of the girls in the group, and after saying a few words to her, then address the rest of the group, maybe asking for the group's opinion, advice, etc. If you talk to only one of the girls, but totally ignore the rest, the rest of the girls will get b*tchy and may attempt to c*ckblock because they want their small share of attention (I know its ridiculous isnt it?). Ex: "Hey I need your opinion on my shirt, does it bring out my chest more or my arms more?"(Lets say she says "arms")..."Yeah thats what I figured, what do you girls all think? Chest or arms?" While all this is going on, be observant to see which of the girls is most interested, and then briefly single her out in a very brief convo, and then close it all out. Make sure you address the entire group when you close (obviously there is room for a number close).
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Option B: Address the group as a whole. This one can work well because it becomes easier to determine which of the girls is interested in you. The one that smiles at you and says something is the one you then focus on. If you're addressing the group, go with a question, comment, opinion etc that addresses the group as a whole. Ex: Hey do any of you have an extra pencil? (Now focus on the girl that responds to you, because she's the one that's interested)....Oh thank you, what's your name by the way?....Then just continue on with the conversation.
Let me add though, try to make it brief and that you will talk to her later, because her friends will get all pissed off and b*tchy with you, and will try to c*ckblock if you get in a long convo right in front of them or ask questions,comments, etc that require a long response. (They will view it as being rude). If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
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Hahaha that'd be pretty funny if you did it the other way around...eaglez1177 said:If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
"seeya girls later...you though, give me your number"
freshprince
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this i would never do because i don't have to guts to do it but if i was going to i would draw her away from the crowd with the move that will smith used in hitch, i know its corny right... but who knows it could work if you try it and if you do please tell me how it goes LOL
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
eaglez1177
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Soft and few words? Nahh man you gotta be loud and clear, so the girls can just feel the confidence coming off youcemejacky said:Just concentrate over them discussion and when any topic you catch which you know deeply then just say that by soft and few words....
Easily get in.....