MrP
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Specifically with groups of girls and no wing. How can I get into conversation with them easily? (It's so much easier when they're alone, but the hot ones are ALWAYS in a group).
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to interrupt?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr.Freestyler19
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use ur imagination!
examples :
do u have a pencil/pen etc........do u have 5 cents if near a vending machine.....i like ur t-shirt/ blouse etc..
examples :
do u have a pencil/pen etc........do u have 5 cents if near a vending machine.....i like ur t-shirt/ blouse etc..
eaglez1177
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Well theres two ways you can go on this one:
Option A: Address ONE of the girls in the group, and after saying a few words to her, then address the rest of the group, maybe asking for the group's opinion, advice, etc. If you talk to only one of the girls, but totally ignore the rest, the rest of the girls will get b*tchy and may attempt to c*ckblock because they want their small share of attention (I know its ridiculous isnt it?). Ex: "Hey I need your opinion on my shirt, does it bring out my chest more or my arms more?"(Lets say she says "arms")..."Yeah thats what I figured, what do you girls all think? Chest or arms?" While all this is going on, be observant to see which of the girls is most interested, and then briefly single her out in a very brief convo, and then close it all out. Make sure you address the entire group when you close (obviously there is room for a number close).
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Option B: Address the group as a whole. This one can work well because it becomes easier to determine which of the girls is interested in you. The one that smiles at you and says something is the one you then focus on. If you're addressing the group, go with a question, comment, opinion etc that addresses the group as a whole. Ex: Hey do any of you have an extra pencil? (Now focus on the girl that responds to you, because she's the one that's interested)....Oh thank you, what's your name by the way?....Then just continue on with the conversation.
Let me add though, try to make it brief and that you will talk to her later, because her friends will get all pissed off and b*tchy with you, and will try to c*ckblock if you get in a long convo right in front of them or ask questions,comments, etc that require a long response. (They will view it as being rude). If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
Option A: Address ONE of the girls in the group, and after saying a few words to her, then address the rest of the group, maybe asking for the group's opinion, advice, etc. If you talk to only one of the girls, but totally ignore the rest, the rest of the girls will get b*tchy and may attempt to c*ckblock because they want their small share of attention (I know its ridiculous isnt it?). Ex: "Hey I need your opinion on my shirt, does it bring out my chest more or my arms more?"(Lets say she says "arms")..."Yeah thats what I figured, what do you girls all think? Chest or arms?" While all this is going on, be observant to see which of the girls is most interested, and then briefly single her out in a very brief convo, and then close it all out. Make sure you address the entire group when you close (obviously there is room for a number close).
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Option B: Address the group as a whole. This one can work well because it becomes easier to determine which of the girls is interested in you. The one that smiles at you and says something is the one you then focus on. If you're addressing the group, go with a question, comment, opinion etc that addresses the group as a whole. Ex: Hey do any of you have an extra pencil? (Now focus on the girl that responds to you, because she's the one that's interested)....Oh thank you, what's your name by the way?....Then just continue on with the conversation.
Let me add though, try to make it brief and that you will talk to her later, because her friends will get all pissed off and b*tchy with you, and will try to c*ckblock if you get in a long convo right in front of them or ask questions,comments, etc that require a long response. (They will view it as being rude). If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
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Hahaha that'd be pretty funny if you did it the other way around...eaglez1177 said:If going for a number, go for that first before you address the entire group to close out. Ex: "Yeah I havent seen you much lately, let me have your number so I can get to know you better....(smile) Okay see you girls later"
"seeya girls later...you though, give me your number"
freshprince
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this i would never do because i don't have to guts to do it but if i was going to i would draw her away from the crowd with the move that will smith used in hitch, i know its corny right... but who knows it could work if you try it and if you do please tell me how it goes LOL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
eaglez1177
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Soft and few words? Nahh man you gotta be loud and clear, so the girls can just feel the confidence coming off youcemejacky said:Just concentrate over them discussion and when any topic you catch which you know deeply then just say that by soft and few words....
Easily get in.....