"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to indicate to a chick that you want her to be a Fvck buddy

gimmeyofonenumba

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I got some questions. Before my main intention wasnt sex, but an actual relationship(ya...wierd huh?) sex would've been great, but now, the girl that iam trying to game(i talk to her often on campus), seems to be like an attention *****, and a B1tch after a while of knowing her,and im slowly starting to realize being in a relationship wouldnt be all that great with her. So now im trying to salvage a fvck buddy kinda thing. I've initiated some kino, and she's made some low-key sexual comments. Like calling me differnt kinda names, Im new to the kino thing, but we've both kino'd each other a few times now. I admit, i've been a pvssy in waiting so long to ask her out, but how do i send the msg or whats the next step for me, so I can initiate this fvck buddy thing? I sure could work on my sex jokes/comments.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I just said "do you wana fool around" we havet done anything yet im waiting till after my exams, in the summer.
 

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There is no indication...It just happens..... You don't ask for it or hint around....just relax and chill with her. When you hit, cut back on the chill time.....
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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so pretty much just chill with her like a normal friend, except their is loads of kino/sexual talk&jokes? if so...i can easily do that.
 

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Chill with her like a normal friend...Bang her, and then after you start banging regularly, cut back on the chill time and step up the bangin time..if a Fvck buddy is what you want.
If she is a fvck buddy, you can't chill with her that much..or if you chill with her too little, she will for m an attachment...Have to do things just right..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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