"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to indicate to a chick that you want her to be a Fvck buddy

gimmeyofonenumba

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I got some questions. Before my main intention wasnt sex, but an actual relationship(ya...wierd huh?) sex would've been great, but now, the girl that iam trying to game(i talk to her often on campus), seems to be like an attention *****, and a B1tch after a while of knowing her,and im slowly starting to realize being in a relationship wouldnt be all that great with her. So now im trying to salvage a fvck buddy kinda thing. I've initiated some kino, and she's made some low-key sexual comments. Like calling me differnt kinda names, Im new to the kino thing, but we've both kino'd each other a few times now. I admit, i've been a pvssy in waiting so long to ask her out, but how do i send the msg or whats the next step for me, so I can initiate this fvck buddy thing? I sure could work on my sex jokes/comments.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I just said "do you wana fool around" we havet done anything yet im waiting till after my exams, in the summer.
 

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There is no indication...It just happens..... You don't ask for it or hint around....just relax and chill with her. When you hit, cut back on the chill time.....
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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so pretty much just chill with her like a normal friend, except their is loads of kino/sexual talk&jokes? if so...i can easily do that.
 

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Chill with her like a normal friend...Bang her, and then after you start banging regularly, cut back on the chill time and step up the bangin time..if a Fvck buddy is what you want.
If she is a fvck buddy, you can't chill with her that much..or if you chill with her too little, she will for m an attachment...Have to do things just right..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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