"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to increase TESTOSTERONE levels

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I think that i might have low testosterone levels lately, have some of the symptoms. exhausted, infatuated, bad mind concentration, cannot motivate myself, low sex-drive.

I'm not older then 40 years, so age doesn't play a role in this!
I cut masturbating some time ago..

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How i can raise my testosterone levels to a normal, or even a somewhat higer level. But still the normal way, without using any doktor stuff
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get more zinc in your diet. Alough you sound more like your under stress rather that having low testosterone levels. The doctor woundt be the worst idea, dont be an ignoranus haha.
 

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Definately try getting some excercise. It will help you release stress, raise your motabilism, and make you generally much more energetic. I often find my self roaring to go after a good workout.

Eat well. Eat natural, whole grain stuff. Junk food is a no no.

Also... you may laugh at this... but what type of underwear do you wear? I remember reading once about the importance of keeping your balls cool. At the end of the day, it is where your testostrone is produced! So it is important to look after them.

Good luck
 

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Great response Fash, just to add to it. Avoid fast food or anything with saturated fats. Eat healthy foods with mono and poly saturated fats. You will be amazed at how much exercise + healthy nutrition help. Also it gives you a better mind frame and makes you feel better about your health over all.
 

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Who wants to make 10,000 a month, I want to help you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If your testosterone lowers you will know about it as one of the main symptoms is you will start growing tits!

Seeing as you havent I agree with the other guys. It sounds more like stress. Exercise is defo a top result. It will create indorphines that will make you feel better and it will also up your physical testostarone level.

I agree with fash about the balls thing.....Where loose boxers. I once stopped wanking.....freaked me out. Then i realised i needed new underwear as mine was to small....Sorted the problem. Also made "down there" feel better.

A balanced diet will also certainly help. The penis gets erect threw a good blood flow. Aviod fatty foods.


If the problem conitues go and see a doctor.....seriouslly. They get it all the time.
 

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You sound like you have depression. Go to a shrink. Quite frankly if your on this board - it's not an unlikely assumption.
 

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No i did not grow tits, so it maybe just stress or a light depression. But excersise definetly helps!..

Not wanking for a couple of days or a week.. just can feel the testosterone levels high.. or in some way more active. This may be ofcourse only in your head then.
 

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If you do everything in moderation, your testosterone will soar
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Faca said:
I cut masturbating some time ago..
Does masturbating lower testosterone levels? I think I know the answer but just wanna confirm.
 

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DJ_in_making said:
Does masturbating lower testosterone levels? I think I know the answer but just wanna confirm.
Yes. Chronic Masturbating does.

The ocassional one or even twice a week probally won't.
 

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Exercise, exercise, and exercise. Masturbation cut-back is a myth, as no-masturbation can LOWER testosterone. Google it.

Best damn thing EVER though to higher T is camping.

Alone.
 

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DJ_in_making said:
Does masturbating lower testosterone levels? I think I know the answer but just wanna confirm.

I've seen alot of success when i stopped beating it for a couple dayz...like one day i grabbed like 3 numbers went home wacked it n the next day I felt like i couldn't get a girl if i tried..i felt sluggish tired...and i just didn't wanna talk to any girls..but when i didn't do it for a couple dayz i felt alive...i felt confident...and happy

you also said your like close to 40?? i heard that's when you start to hit the decline n sex-drive so that might be it..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best way I found to increase testosterone is to do 20 rep "widowmaker" squats. It is proven to effectivly increase your testosterone. That might be the reason I am horny every time I come home after doing legs.
 

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ive been eating junk food lately, and i feel like crap=[ i work out about three times a week too
 

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Faca said:
No i did not grow tits, so it maybe just stress or a light depression. But excersise definetly helps!..

Not wanking for a couple of days or a week.. just can feel the testosterone levels high.. or in some way more active. This may be ofcourse only in your head then.

Most the info people are giving you here is bs, heres a good link

http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/a/testost_defic.htm

Go see your doc and tell him you want a full checkup, see if deppresion is a factor and see if low testosterone could be it, be insistent until you get an answer.
 

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Bodybuilding. Every other alternative is LAUGHABLE. Heavy lifting, baby! :)
 

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englishman said:
Most the info people are giving you here is bs, heres a good link

http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/a/testost_defic.htm

Go see your doc and tell him you want a full checkup, see if deppresion is a factor and see if low testosterone could be it, be insistent until you get an answer.
Thx for the link.. but still one question..

Is there any scientifical proof for that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels?

And we all agree that excercise is the best way to go, But one thing. Does anybody of you guys use any supplements: Creatine, Protein or Amino .. etc?..

And what are the effects of this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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