I made a move on this chick(she called me for a morning walk as I was her only friend there) , kissed her n grabbed her ass but when I kissed her she gave an inexperienced closed lips kiss n I thought she wasn't interested but didn't push me away n also was smiling the whole time.... Later I pulled her close she was trying to remove my hands but smiling the whole time, she said... People kiss their boyfriends but not friends ... Do u think she was dtf? If not then you was she smiling?
Ok ima just assume your really inexperienced.
If she doesn't push you away then proceed, if she smiles then proceed....have some balls and be more confident, stop 2nd guessing yourself.
When trying to physical escalate on a woman they almost always will put up some resistance, they will tease and play hard to get, dont let this throw you off your game. She was just teasing and playing coy with you. If a girl sees she can play that role and you seem like its throwing you off your game(they can tell) or you dont know what your doing then they will lose interest and keep toying with you just for fun.
When I make a physical move I expect her to back off a lil or show some resistance, I like it, it makes things more fun but I dont panic because I know the end result. You gotta feel the vibe out and watch how she moves around you, trust me, you will know.
When you try to escalate and she rejects, you back for a second then try again a lil later(feeling her vibe out) this is women's favorite part, they get extremely turned on by a guy who seems sure of himself and seems as if he knows exactly what hes doing, no hesitation, no nerves, no self consciousness, just smooth confidence and sex appeal.
Me personally, I like to avoid physical escalation at the times when the window is open because I like to build the anticipation and play a lil hard to get myself and since I have the looks its easier to pull this off but as soon as I feel the moment is right BOOM! My sexual instinct kicks in and I make things happen, once you get more confident all of this will come natural for you bro.
You said it yourself, "I took it as a sign of disinterest" where is your confidence? I always under all circumstances assume a girl is attracted to me until proven otherwise and even that is not good enough for my own ego lol. trust yourself, be bold, grow some balls my friend and when it works out your confidence will shoot threw the roof and you will be able to go back and laugh at how you "use" to be.
BOLD BEHAVIOR=CONFIDENCE=BECOMING MORE ATTRACTIVE
IN THAT ORDER.
other then that, good job.
