"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to i start convo

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Ok there is a really good looking girl in like 3 of my classes she knows my name i know her but i dunno how to start convo with her. Wat do i do? How do i just start a convo with a random good looking girls and how do i make her keep want to come bak and talk to me. PLEASE HELP ANYTHING
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Comment on somthing she has thats unusual or just a simple hey but u shouldnt try to talk to her in everyclass you have her in cuase then ur convos will get boring
 

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Hi and hellos is all good openers, very clasic however you need to have something strong, interesting eye catching convos to back up that hi/hellos. You need to catch her attention instantly. Im a freshman and heres how i start convos with all the junior and senior chicks.

(props to Fingers and his breath taking as well as educating post)

Me: Hi, excus my interuption but I'm doing this sociel experiment to overcome my fear of girls that I find attractive. Thank you for perticipating. *Smile then walk off*

Usualy she would ask me about it, in lot of case I would start feeding her with my presence slowly like a true player, forgive me the right word would be DJ.

If she is not experience or fast, she would probaly act all confuse like most of us do when we come across a interesting girl, but dont sweat it becuase 1. She are not sure how to aproach this situation becuase apperantly this never happend to her and talk about this with her freinds(more rep.) also shes nervous 2. She find an aproach to this and anitiate a convo with you later on. Then its all up to you
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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/\Sounds way too corny for me but if it works for you.....alrite....i don't think this guys should do it tho
 
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