"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok there is a really good looking girl in like 3 of my classes she knows my name i know her but i dunno how to start convo with her. Wat do i do? How do i just start a convo with a random good looking girls and how do i make her keep want to come bak and talk to me. PLEASE HELP ANYTHING
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Comment on somthing she has thats unusual or just a simple hey but u shouldnt try to talk to her in everyclass you have her in cuase then ur convos will get boring
 
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Hi and hellos is all good openers, very clasic however you need to have something strong, interesting eye catching convos to back up that hi/hellos. You need to catch her attention instantly. Im a freshman and heres how i start convos with all the junior and senior chicks.

(props to Fingers and his breath taking as well as educating post)

Me: Hi, excus my interuption but I'm doing this sociel experiment to overcome my fear of girls that I find attractive. Thank you for perticipating. *Smile then walk off*

Usualy she would ask me about it, in lot of case I would start feeding her with my presence slowly like a true player, forgive me the right word would be DJ.

If she is not experience or fast, she would probaly act all confuse like most of us do when we come across a interesting girl, but dont sweat it becuase 1. She are not sure how to aproach this situation becuase apperantly this never happend to her and talk about this with her freinds(more rep.) also shes nervous 2. She find an aproach to this and anitiate a convo with you later on. Then its all up to you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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/\Sounds way too corny for me but if it works for you.....alrite....i don't think this guys should do it tho
 
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