"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to I find the motivation to escalate with a girl I'm not attracted to?

Lucifero

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Chickfight said:
While I do feel attracted to these girls. It usually doesn't persist after banging them. I think the whole orbiting thing may be what makes us "fall in love". Knowing that other males desire her and can't get her, but we can.
Some good guys with high self-esteem who can be mature and actually appreciate a woman's personality with out her being hot. An example being good looking male celebrities with average wives, like Hugh Jackman. Unfortunately, I'm not at this level yet.
lol, your a lesbian?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zarky

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You can get 40 generic viagras for $80 including shipping these days. Ever tried a little blue pill? They're pretty damn amazing. Doesn't "turn you on" per se but it makes you rock hard even if you're not really into it.

I had to use em awhile back. I was banging a chick who was older and well, fatter. She was extremely generous and bought me all sort of sh|t and cooked me meals and cleaned my place, so I didn't want to give her up. But she was horny as hell and I could not get it up with her. So I popped sildenafil or whatever the generic name is to keep things going.

Kind of a strange period of my life...
 

Kal0051

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Where is the :facepalm: smiley when you need it?
Here it is:


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