"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to I find the motivation to escalate with a girl I'm not attracted to?

Lucifero

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Chickfight said:
While I do feel attracted to these girls. It usually doesn't persist after banging them. I think the whole orbiting thing may be what makes us "fall in love". Knowing that other males desire her and can't get her, but we can.
Some good guys with high self-esteem who can be mature and actually appreciate a woman's personality with out her being hot. An example being good looking male celebrities with average wives, like Hugh Jackman. Unfortunately, I'm not at this level yet.
lol, your a lesbian?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zarky

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You can get 40 generic viagras for $80 including shipping these days. Ever tried a little blue pill? They're pretty damn amazing. Doesn't "turn you on" per se but it makes you rock hard even if you're not really into it.

I had to use em awhile back. I was banging a chick who was older and well, fatter. She was extremely generous and bought me all sort of sh|t and cooked me meals and cleaned my place, so I didn't want to give her up. But she was horny as hell and I could not get it up with her. So I popped sildenafil or whatever the generic name is to keep things going.

Kind of a strange period of my life...
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Where is the :facepalm: smiley when you need it?
Here it is:


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