"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to have WOMEN in ur life

Bigworm

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the importance of having women friends cannot be understated. That being said
i feel its very easy to cross the line out of friendship and try to get sexual with a
lady friend. Most of the friends of the opposite sex thatve had have been through girls that ive messed up with and kept as friends. How do u go about having female friends without demostrating sexual interest? wat type of activities would you guys do that wouldnt seem like ur were goin on a date with her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jonwon

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Bigworm said:
the importance of having women friends cannot be understated. That being said
i feel its very easy to cross the line out of friendship and try to get sexual with a
lady friend. Most of the friends of the opposite sex thatve had have been through girls that ive messed up with and kept as friends. How do u go about having female friends without demostrating sexual interest? wat type of activities would you guys do that wouldnt seem like ur were goin on a date with her?
None unless i am fuc*ing her, i wont be spending time with her, unless she is my sister, a mate of my sisters, my mum or any of my family, otherwise i dont see the point.

But then again if i had an intrest in something and wanted to persue that i.e squash for example and only a women was available i would do that, but i dont play squash :D
 

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haha maybe thats why Jews are not allowed to make women friends... caz they know how easy it is to turn a friend girl into a f*ck:up: friend
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bigworm

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first of all its very important to have girl friends especially starting out.
1) Your reputation goes up incredibly especially if u show up with them at parties.
2) They can introduce you to their friends.
3) AND ur game will improve cause you learn wat topics work and dont work with women. in a sense you become more subtle and tactfull.

All these reasons want me wanna get more females in my life. Anywayz any suggestions on how to go about this would be welcomed.
 

DJ Alejandro

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hmm.. i have too many women friends right now. im having trouble choosing one. just broke up with my girlfriend. hehe :)
 

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If Only Things Were Different...

I just wrote a reply that got massively out of control.

I'll post it as a main topic coz I like it. But you should find an answer which might satisfy in there.

JJ
 

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how about going for a hot hb then going all AFC on her. that'll make her ur friend quick.

but i dont really see alot of points in spending time with females friends. i always thought makes friends made better friends. if the females are genuine, than thats great. but if ur just getting friends to look good for chicks, than it's not worth it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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