"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to have WOMEN in ur life

Bigworm

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the importance of having women friends cannot be understated. That being said
i feel its very easy to cross the line out of friendship and try to get sexual with a
lady friend. Most of the friends of the opposite sex thatve had have been through girls that ive messed up with and kept as friends. How do u go about having female friends without demostrating sexual interest? wat type of activities would you guys do that wouldnt seem like ur were goin on a date with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bigworm said:
the importance of having women friends cannot be understated. That being said
i feel its very easy to cross the line out of friendship and try to get sexual with a
lady friend. Most of the friends of the opposite sex thatve had have been through girls that ive messed up with and kept as friends. How do u go about having female friends without demostrating sexual interest? wat type of activities would you guys do that wouldnt seem like ur were goin on a date with her?
None unless i am fuc*ing her, i wont be spending time with her, unless she is my sister, a mate of my sisters, my mum or any of my family, otherwise i dont see the point.

But then again if i had an intrest in something and wanted to persue that i.e squash for example and only a women was available i would do that, but i dont play squash :D
 

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haha maybe thats why Jews are not allowed to make women friends... caz they know how easy it is to turn a friend girl into a f*ck:up: friend
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bigworm

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first of all its very important to have girl friends especially starting out.
1) Your reputation goes up incredibly especially if u show up with them at parties.
2) They can introduce you to their friends.
3) AND ur game will improve cause you learn wat topics work and dont work with women. in a sense you become more subtle and tactfull.

All these reasons want me wanna get more females in my life. Anywayz any suggestions on how to go about this would be welcomed.
 

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hmm.. i have too many women friends right now. im having trouble choosing one. just broke up with my girlfriend. hehe :)
 

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If Only Things Were Different...

I just wrote a reply that got massively out of control.

I'll post it as a main topic coz I like it. But you should find an answer which might satisfy in there.

JJ
 

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how about going for a hot hb then going all AFC on her. that'll make her ur friend quick.

but i dont really see alot of points in spending time with females friends. i always thought makes friends made better friends. if the females are genuine, than thats great. but if ur just getting friends to look good for chicks, than it's not worth it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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