"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to have girls approach YOU...

Jack-Torrance

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Okay guys, so if you have problems approaching girls (maybe nerves - although you shouldn't act nervous) but anyway... I think David DeAngelo brought this up in something before I forget quite what, but here are some things I have used before...

Well anyway...

There are quite a few things you can do (although some need you to be with a friend)

1. (To your friend when you are near a girl you want to talk to)


YOU: Yes, I think ALL girls do it...

HER: (If she has enough confidence to say something) What? What do all girls do?

YOU: Say they want nice guys when really they want something else...

HER: Huh? What do we want?

etc. etc.


2. (Get a custom printed shirt with the words "Smile if you want to sleep with me" written on it, maybe "Smile if you think I am sexy" if you are younger)

HER: (Hardly any girls will be able to resist smiling)

YOU: (Come on this needs no explaining lol)


3. (If you know some of her good friends, hang out with them for a bit and you are bound to meet up with her somehow)


HER FRIEND: Hi this is "your name"

HER: Hi :)

YOU: (Just go from here)



Number three isn't really an "approach" in all of its glory but hey you still get to meet up with her without any balls required on your part... just what some of you more shy guys wanted :)
(Although you must act confident when talking to her)


Hope you can make use of this if you were having trouble approaching...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ

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I think the best approach is to ask for a female opinion IMO.

"Hey, can I have your opinion on something..."
 
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