"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to have girls approach YOU...

Jack-Torrance

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Okay guys, so if you have problems approaching girls (maybe nerves - although you shouldn't act nervous) but anyway... I think David DeAngelo brought this up in something before I forget quite what, but here are some things I have used before...

Well anyway...

There are quite a few things you can do (although some need you to be with a friend)

1. (To your friend when you are near a girl you want to talk to)


YOU: Yes, I think ALL girls do it...

HER: (If she has enough confidence to say something) What? What do all girls do?

YOU: Say they want nice guys when really they want something else...

HER: Huh? What do we want?

etc. etc.


2. (Get a custom printed shirt with the words "Smile if you want to sleep with me" written on it, maybe "Smile if you think I am sexy" if you are younger)

HER: (Hardly any girls will be able to resist smiling)

YOU: (Come on this needs no explaining lol)


3. (If you know some of her good friends, hang out with them for a bit and you are bound to meet up with her somehow)


HER FRIEND: Hi this is "your name"

HER: Hi :)

YOU: (Just go from here)



Number three isn't really an "approach" in all of its glory but hey you still get to meet up with her without any balls required on your part... just what some of you more shy guys wanted :)
(Although you must act confident when talking to her)


Hope you can make use of this if you were having trouble approaching...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChrizZ

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I think the best approach is to ask for a female opinion IMO.

"Hey, can I have your opinion on something..."
 
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