"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to have girls approach YOU...

Jack-Torrance

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Okay guys, so if you have problems approaching girls (maybe nerves - although you shouldn't act nervous) but anyway... I think David DeAngelo brought this up in something before I forget quite what, but here are some things I have used before...

Well anyway...

There are quite a few things you can do (although some need you to be with a friend)

1. (To your friend when you are near a girl you want to talk to)


YOU: Yes, I think ALL girls do it...

HER: (If she has enough confidence to say something) What? What do all girls do?

YOU: Say they want nice guys when really they want something else...

HER: Huh? What do we want?

etc. etc.


2. (Get a custom printed shirt with the words "Smile if you want to sleep with me" written on it, maybe "Smile if you think I am sexy" if you are younger)

HER: (Hardly any girls will be able to resist smiling)

YOU: (Come on this needs no explaining lol)


3. (If you know some of her good friends, hang out with them for a bit and you are bound to meet up with her somehow)


HER FRIEND: Hi this is "your name"

HER: Hi :)

YOU: (Just go from here)



Number three isn't really an "approach" in all of its glory but hey you still get to meet up with her without any balls required on your part... just what some of you more shy guys wanted :)
(Although you must act confident when talking to her)


Hope you can make use of this if you were having trouble approaching...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ

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I think the best approach is to ask for a female opinion IMO.

"Hey, can I have your opinion on something..."
 
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