"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to have friends outside of school

we all eat food

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i think this is my problem. So anyone got any ideas or any solutions, since i feel as if everyone who i wanna chill with has a life and **** like that. And stuff just doesnt happen. But whateverm im here to be positive not mope about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Im 16 also, Ill tell you exactly what to do to make friends........Ill start from scratch. Joke around with a guy in any of your classes, Im sure theres at least 1 guy you know pretty well in your classes, ask him where he chills at lunch...he'll tell you....you go and he most likely will have a group of friends, eat lunch with them, every day...slowly work your way in....pretty soon your one of them and they will make plans and youll be IN.
 

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Hah, ironic? 'we all eat food' doesn't have lunch.

But that's some good advice, find someone that you know a little bit. Joke around with them and whatnot, then after awhile they'll probably invite you hang out or whatever.
 
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I know a lot of people from other schools (more than from my own school probably). I usually meet them through activities that I do, like chinese school, jujitsu, etc. Also, you can meet them through your friends at school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do you invite them anywere?
 

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I'd say get a hobby. I am 100 % sure that there will be something out there that you're interested in and will enjoy doing. Go find that thing, try out everything if you need to. Then you''ll find people who enjoy the same thing and everything will work itself out. But remember, you have to be doing it because you're enjoying yourself while you do it, not do it because you want to make friends.
 

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It's really simple. You just approach a dude you think is cool and friendly and you
joke around with him. That's all there is to it. You're immediately friends. Invite him or her over to your place and have fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lmao @ 'we all eat food' doesn't have lunch

but yeah just dont come off as desperate to make friends or wateva. be funny and joke around with one guy, and then make friends with all his friends. dont try too hard to make friends with em, juz chill
 

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Originally posted by we all eat food
well no one ever invites me anywhere
Originally posted by True Wolf
Do you invite them anywere?
ah the wolf is truely insightful.:woo:
 
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