"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to handle this situation?

Zeus

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Hey guys, doing good now with the ladys. I picked up a girl at my gym and we went out, had a good time. Now heres the deal, we talked about releationships and she said that she have "problems" getting to emotional attached to a guy, like its a trust issue. Cause when she was 16 somebody tried to rape her, but lucky nothing happend she run away. But still today when shes 25, she think about it. Now she realized that she have a problem, and want to solve it.

So whats your tip, i dont want to ruin things by being to much forward doing kino, going for the kiss. The usual stuff, she may think i just want to bang her and that it. So whats the game plan? Hehe
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But you do want to bang her so dont change your game plan. Go for the throat! If she has mental or emotional problems, move on. Not worth your time.
 

Zeus

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enough said, going for the kill then.
 

Lust

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Zeus said:
enough said, going for the kill then.
Yeah go son, and don't think twice.

I think if you run a tight game, she'll be emotionally attached to you whether she wants to be or not.
 

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If this b!tch is whacky enough to admit she's emotionally fvcked up imagine for a moment what she hasn't admitted to . . .

Fvck her in the butt and then broom her off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Suggest to her that she should rape you. That way she is in control.
 

Lust

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Poll said:
Suggest to her that she should rape you. That way she is in control.
Here comes the smartass.

Every reply you have posted is completely useless. This forum is full of people posting useless junk like yours.

Be constructive, why don't you go ask a girl to rape you and tell me how it goes?
 

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Why were you discussing relationships so early?

Now you think you have found a "problem" and you want to "fix it."

Typical male behavior that doesn't work. She is a big girl, she doesn't need you to fix her problems.

Maybe she has rape fantasies, who knows? Maybe this never happened.

Actions, not words. Focus on what you want, and if she goes along with your program, maybe you can spend some time together. Otherwise, try not to listen too much to her words, but closely watch her actions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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